Being thoughtful=Annoying..?

If we are being thoughtful and kind to the others,
does it mean that our benevolence will be appreciated by the others?
well, sad to say that it's a "no"..
okay, fine..
even if you don't appreciate it, it's still acceptable for me..
but can you please don't be doubtful about it??
i hate to say this but i think most people do..
what can be done?? this is a realistic world right?
this is a lesson i learned today..

the weather is still the same as yesterday but i'm looking at it despairingly right now..